I work in client services and I’m on video calls all day. A colleague showed me a screenshot from a meeting and I looked like I was frowning the entire time – I wasn’t. My frown lines were just deep at rest. I’d been thinking about it for two years. The consultation took longer than the treatment itself. Three weeks later, a client asked if I’d had a holiday. I hadn’t.
K., 24
Aesthetic Consultation – Botox
I broke my nose at fourteen in a cycling accident and the bridge never set quite right. I didn’t hate it – but every photo from the side reminded me of that. I’d thought about rhinoplasty on and off for years but kept talking myself out of it. The surgeon spent an entire appointment just going through what I liked and didn’t like about my nose and explaining what was and wasn’t achievable. The swelling takes longer than you expect. But at six months, I look at side-on photos and I don’t think about the accident anymore.
I’ve been an A cup my whole adult life. When I gained and lost weight, nothing changed there. I tried every push-up bra made. I felt fine in clothes but never proportionate in my own body without them. A friend had had implants and came with me to the consultation, which helped. The surgeon walked through every option without pushing anything. I chose a modest size. Recovery was slower than expected the first week. Three months on, I look in the mirror and I don’t compensate with clothing anymore.
I’ve always had thin lips – my bottom lip especially almost disappears when I smile. In photos I’d angle myself without realising it. I researched fillers for a long time before booking, because the results I was scared of were everywhere online. The consultation was the opposite of what I expected. We started conservative. I remember driving home and checking my reflection at the lights and actually liking what I saw. Still do.
L., 23
Aesthetic Consultation – Lip fillers
My mother had her upper lids done in her sixties and I swore I’d wait too. But at fifty-three I was putting on eye makeup and realised I couldn’t really see my eyelid crease anymore. The skin had just gradually folded over. The procedure was shorter than I expected and the recovery was ten days at home. When the swelling settled, I had my eyelids back. I don’t wear any less makeup. I just actually see the result of it now.
T., 53
Face Surgery – Blepharoplasty
I lost thirty-two kilos over two years. It took everything I had. What I was left with was excess skin – my arms, my abdomen, my thighs. I’d done the hard part and felt trapped inside it. The surgeon was clear about what was involved: a longer procedure, a longer recovery, real scars. I said I understood. Six months on I’m wearing short sleeves for the first time in my adult life. I feel like I finally got the ending the weight-loss story deserved.
I’ve been clenching my jaw for years – my dentist has been telling me since my late twenties. I’d wake up with a tight jaw and headaches by midday. I came in for jaw Botox without expecting much. The headaches were gone within a week. Six months later, my dentist noticed less wear on my teeth and asked what I’d changed. I hadn’t expected that part.
M., 34
Aesthetic Consultation – Botox
I run a lot and I’m fit. But when I looked in the mirror, my lower face had stopped matching how I felt. The jowls started in my mid-forties and just kept going. A colleague had had a mini facelift and she looked like herself – not pulled, just rested. I came in not knowing what was possible at my age. The surgeon was direct about what a mini lift does and doesn’t do. I had it done last spring. My face looks like it did at about forty.
I had my son at twenty-eight and breastfed for fourteen months. Afterwards there was barely anything left – I went from a full C cup to something that didn’t need a bra at all. I didn’t feel like myself. I’d thought about implants before the pregnancy and shelved it. After, I booked the consultation within a month. The surgeon asked me to bring photos of how I looked before. We went from there. I feel like myself again.
I wasn’t looking for a procedure – I was looking for a consultation. I wanted someone to look at my skin and tell me honestly what it needed. I’m in my late forties and hadn’t done anything before. I left with a skin booster treatment plan. It’s not dramatic. But six months on, the texture of my skin is different and I wear considerably less foundation. That was the goal.
P., 47
Aesthetic Consultation
I wore my hair down every single day from the age of seven. I never went swimming at secondary school without a reason. I wore a bun exactly once – at a school formal – and spent the entire evening self-conscious about it. I booked the consultation at twenty and had the surgery at twenty-one. Recovery was two weeks with a headband. Now I pull my hair back without thinking about it. It sounds like a small thing. It wasn’t small.
I’ve been at the same weight for eight years. I run three times a week and eat carefully. The flanks and outer thighs just don’t respond – they haven’t since my late thirties. I’d put off a consultation for two years because I thought I should be able to fix it with exercise. The surgeon was direct: some fat distribution is genetic and resistant to training. That one conversation changed how I felt about the whole decision. I had liposuction last spring. I’m the same weight. My clothes fit completely differently.
I’ve had back pain since I was nineteen. I’d always worn minimiser bras, avoided exercise classes, slept on my back because I had to. The consultation was the first time a doctor confirmed in plain terms that yes, this was the cause, and yes, it could be fixed. Surgery was in September. By January I was doing Pilates for the first time in my adult life.
I’m a yoga teacher. I photograph my classes for social media and I started to dread the side-on shots. The neck had changed in a way fitness couldn’t address. I came in expecting to be told to wait or that it wasn’t worth it at my age. The surgeon was specific: this is what a neck lift does, this is the recovery, these are realistic results. I had it done in February and went back to teaching in April. I stopped dreading those photos.
I nursed two children and when I stopped, everything was forty centimetres lower than where it started. I knew breastfeeding could do this – I just hadn’t quite expected the reality. I wasn’t looking to be larger. I just wanted them back where they were. The surgeon was clear that a lift without implants was the right option for my case – I appreciated the directness. Recovery took three weeks before I could pick up my youngest comfortably. The result looks natural. My only regret is waiting four years to book.